The Power of Unconditional Help: A Memorable Lesson on Generosity

I've always believed in helping others, a trait I hold near and dear to my heart. It's not about receiving something in return, it's about being there for someone, even in the smallest ways. This belief has shaped me, and it's a quality that I value in my relationships.

Unwavering Support

My friends know that I am the person they can rely on, no matter the time or the situation. I often receive calls in the middle of the night, at 2 A.M., when they need help. For instance, if their SBI accounts go down, I’ll assist them by making UPI payments from my account, saving them from an awkward situation with the shopkeeper. It’s become a routine, but I don’t mind at all.

A Routine Johannesburg

A recent example involves a new friend and I, who take a 6-9 P.M. course at the Department of Management Studies IIT Delhi. We both agree to take a rickshaw to get from the hostel to class. She has the option to travel for free on campus but insists on splitting the rickshaw fare. Her independence and financial responsibility are qualities I deeply admire.

Unexpected Generosity

One evening, I faced a dilemma. I had no cash, and my phone was out of balance, so I couldn’t make the payment for the rickshaw. My friend, without hesitation, paid the fare for us. When we arrived at the hostel, I tried to pay her back, but she kindly refused the money. Eager to maintain a balanced relationship, I insisted on covering dinner at the night mess instead. She is meticulous with her finances, tracking every expense, but struggles to ask for money back.

The experience taught me the value of generosity and the power of unselfishness. Had I not asked her to accompany me, I may have never had the opportunity to know her better. Her kind gesture on that day reminded me that the people we offer help to sometimes become the ones who help us when we least expect it. It's a small moment, but it made me appreciate the connections we form with others and how those relationships can surprise us in the best ways.

These moments teach us about the importance of being there for each other. They remind us that helping others can have unexpected rewards. As they say, 'kindness is catching.' And I believe it’s about paying it forward.

Thank you for reading.

Meeta