Etiquette on Trains: When to Move Seats During Depot Stops

Introduction: Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you, seated on a crowded train, are the first to get an exit when the train heads to an intermediate stop? Do you move to another seat or stay where you are? This article delves into the dos and don'ts of dealing with seat changes on a train during intermediate stops, focusing on the preferences and etiquette of seasoned commuters.

Why Move or Stay?

Every individual may have a different viewpoint when it comes to moving or staying put when the train empties out at an intermediate stop. The decision hinges on personal comfort, the comfort level with the person you are seated next to, and the potential need for a better seat. Some may prefer to continue their nap in a seat that is now warm, while others would rather vacate to a seat that is closer to their destination.

Decision Factors in Moving or Staying

Personal Comfort: Are you comfortable and warm in your current seat? If you are catching a good nap in a warm, empty seat, you might consider staying put. However, if the seat is drafty, you might want to change your seat. Companion's Behavior: If the person next to you is still there and is not being obnoxious or smelly, there is no compelling reason to move. It’s important to consider whether your move might be interpreted as a sign of disliking the person or as an issue of hygiene. Availability of Seats: If there are ample open seats, it is generally a good idea to move to a better place if it can be done without causing offence. Communication: It is recommended to communicate clearly with the person next to you if you intend to move. For instance, if your stop is within the next three stops, you could say, 'Are we at [station name] already? I better get ready as my stop is coming up.' If your stop is further, you might say, 'Thank you for letting me stay. I will move and give you your space back.' This helps to avoid misunderstandings.

Personal Experiences and Observations

My personal experience over ten years as a rail commuter is that everyone spreads out as the train empties, with the exception of commuting buddies. It's quite universal, and from my observation, this is the preferred behavior.

Generally, I would stay in my seat unless the person next to me is obnoxious or smelly. If the person is being unpleasant or has a strong scent, it might be courteous to ask them to move. However, most of the time, I would try to have a peaceful chat with the person next to me to pass the time.

Another preference is to move to an open seat unless I'm getting off at the very next stop. This not only ensures comfort but also allows other passengers to get their seats back if they want them.

Conclusion

Deciding whether to move or stay on a train during intermediate stops is a personal choice that varies based on the situation. Whether you choose to stay for better nap time, move for a more comfortable seat, or stay due to the behavior of the person next to you, the key is to respect everyone's space and privacy. Good train etiquette involves clear communication and consideration for others.